YOUR RESULTS ARE HERE AND...

YOU’RE THE MARTYR

The Martyr — The One Everyone Leans On (Until She Can’t stand up Anymore)

You’re the heart of your unit — always present, always dependable, always “on.” You give and give until there’s nothing left — and still feel guilty for wanting more. You pour into others because you know what it feels like to go without support. But somewhere along the way, you started believing your worth was tied to how much you could endure. Lately, you’ve noticed no one ever checks in on you, and it stings! You don’t need to keep proving you care through self-sacrifice. You can still be the heart of your team without losing yourself in the process.

You’re the backbone everyone leans on. A fierce, intuitive leader with a heart that never quits — and a soul that’s finally ready to breathe again. People depend on your “yes”.

All of this has carried you here — to the edge of something new. And now you have arrived at a choice.

Keep doing what you’ve always done. Keep overextending, overdelivering, and calling exhaustion “normal.” Keep showing up for everyone else, quietly wondering when it’ll finally feel easier.
Or… decide this season will look different. Choose to lead without losing yourself. To rebuild your calm, your clarity, and your confidence — not as a luxury, but as your new standard.

Let’s face it… You’ve been running a full Code Blue on everyone else’s burnout. Maybe it’s time to call a rapid response on your own.

At some point, it will all feel unsustainable, like you are driving 100mph towards a cliff. But with a little perspective and some honest reflection, you’ll see that finding your version of peace doesn’t slow your progress — it sharpens it (and comes with far fewer “code brown” moments 😉).

These results give you a starting point; signing up for an intro call with me will give you:

A confidential space to let your hair down while your thoughts run free.
The answer to the question “where do I begin to change?”
A breakdown of what is behind the struggle. Essentially, I hold up a mirror and I challenge your perspectives, often leading to discovering blind spots.
We talk about what your biggest obstacles are; professionally and personally.
The hour is ALL bout YOU. I’m not telling you what to do, we unlock answers you already carry.
Sensible next steps based on who you are, where you are at, and the vision you have for your life.

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READY TO FREE YOURSELF FROM THE STRESSED-OUT, STRETCHED-THIN, EXHAUSTED VERSION OF YOU IN LEADERSHIP?

FIRST THINGS FIRST:

YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO THIS ALONE ANYMORE. PERMIT YOURSELF TO SEEK SUPPORT VS. LIVING ON AN ISOLATION ISLAND.

The hospital will not tell you this, so if you’re giving your screen a “how is she in my head” look right now, hear me out…

YOU ARE A STRONG LEADER IN TRANSITION.

Everything feels off right now because no one ever showed you another way to lead — one that fits who you are now, not who you had to be to survive. You were taught to fix, to manage, to make it look easy.

And for a while, that worked. Until it didn’t.

The truth? There’s no single way to lead — there’s your way. The one that honors your intuition, your calm, your experience. The moment you start questioning the old rules, you’re already rewriting them. Evolution begins with awareness. That quiet voice inside your head isn’t a weakness; it is wisdom

“HOLD UP, WHO ARE YOU AND HOW’D YOU FIGURE ALL THIS OUT?!”

Who knew a pilot program would set off a revolution of nursing leadership?

4 years of coaching the ones everyone else leans on — leadership nurses, who keep showing up even when their tank’s been empty since Tuesday. The breadwinners. The calm in the storm. The ones who can run a code but dread Monday more than the night shift. It took burnout, a few hard resets, and more coffee than I’ll admit to realize: the system doesn’t change until the people leading it do. Now I help nurses stop performing leadership and start embodying it. Because the goal isn’t to survive your career — it’s to create a legacy people remember and aspire to.

MEET ILENE — MOM OF 3, RECOVERING ER NURSE, CHASER OF SUNSETS, COACH FOR THE PEOPLE HOLDING IT ALL TOGETHER.

Hey there, NURSE MARTYR! If self-sacrifice were a sport, you’d already have a sponsorship deal and your own limited-edition scrubs line. You’re the first to stay late, skip lunch, and swoop in like a capeless superhero the moment someone whispers the word“crisis.” Everyone else sees determination. You feel the exhaustion hiding underneath it.

You’ve been the glue for so long that you’ve forgotten what it feels like to not be holding everything together.

Here’s the plot twist: You don’t need to keep saving everyone to prove your value. You’re not “the only one who can do it right.” You’re just the only one who keeps saying yes. And I get it — praise can feel like oxygen. But peace? Peace is the upgrade. The version of you reading this is tired.

The version you’re becoming?

She leads without setting herself on fire to keep everyone warm.

HECK YEAH, NURSE MARTYR!

HERE'S TO ROCKIN' EVERY ADVANTAGE YOU'VE GOT

P.S. Meet me over in your inbox, because your era of Reclemation is just getting started.

Most leaders never pause long enough to ask what they actually need — and that’s exactly why most stay stuck.

Just one real conversation that’s yours — where clarity starts to return, and calm becomes possible again.

Ready to see what opens up when you stop holding it all alone? {Que Oxygen Mask}

You can breathe here.